psa ;;

bigbcng:

       Okay, this has been   bothering  me   a  lot   since a while
& I just thought it was about time I posted something about this.

                            roleplaying is a HOBBY.

     nobody  is ever  forced to be around for  your needs,
     nobody is ever forced to roleplay with you & nobody
     is  ever  forced  to  keep their muse for   your   needs.

It is incredible selfish & I am shocked that people can act this horrible towards others, only because they seem to be obsessed with a character & dont even care to understand that people have a life outside of tumblr, have other interests than this one roleplay, or simply lost their muse. please, do not make their experience horrible by sending passive/offensive aggressive things around, because that is exactly why so many good people disappear from fandom roleplay & probably wont show up again.

                            charatizations can DIFFER.

     nobody is  ever  forced to  roleplay a character the  way
     you see them, nobody is ever forced to play a character
     in    a    certain    way     that    does    not    reflect   their  
     o  w  n      p  e  r  s  o  n  a  l       v  i  e  w  s      on    them. 

this is another thing that is incredible rude from roleplayers & something I will never understand. roleplaying is a creative hobby & people are allowed to experience themselves with different characters & portrayal in general, so w h y would you put somebody down ( in public !!! ) for the way they play a character!? rude much. Just do not follow or interact with them & if they ask you about it tell them in a  p o l i t e  tone that you do not agree with their views. Easy.

                            D O  N O T  S E N D  H A T E !

     Keep it private, keep it off the dash, do not humiliate
     somebody   in   public,   just  stay     P   O   L   I   T   E.

I can not stress about this enough. its not even only about the offensive ( anon ) hate that is sitting like a big black blob in the inboxes of many users who did nothing wrong at all, but also about passive aggressive posts that are directed to a specific person or the simple fact that some people post things that could CLEARLY make somebody feel uncomfortable & let them feel as if they are put in a bad light. It is simply RUDE & makes other people feel HORRIBLE so w h y would you post something that like?

TREAT OTHERS LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED YOURSELF.
Its easy its simple; you dont want to be treated shitty, so dont treat others shitty. Thats it. thats the whole post in one sentence. Just keep it mind & think about other peoples feelings for once.